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* When is the safest time to have unprotected sex? *
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When is the safest time to have unprotected sex?
If you want to avoid getting pregnant the answer is never! Certain times of the month are more high risk of pregnancy than others, however it is possible to get pregnant at any time, even during or just before a period. The most likely time for the body to release an egg (ovulation) is around 14 days before the start of your period. This is often very hard to predict especially if you have an irregular cycle.

Things such as stress, diet and exercise can all alter the timing of your period and therefore the timing of ovulation. It is also possible for sperm to live inside your body for up to 7 days after you have sex. So you could have sex at the beginning of your cycle and the sperm still be alive 7 days later waiting for your body to release an egg. See the section on emergency contraception.

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Can you get pregnant before you start having periods?
Yes. Ovulation (when the body releases an egg) happens before your period starts so you ovulate before your first ever period. If unprotected sex happens around this time it would be possible to become pregnant before ever having a period. See the section on emergency contraception.

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Is it possible to get pregnant the first time you have sex?
Yes. If contraception is not used or it fails then it is possible to get pregnant the first time. See the section on emergency contraception.

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Are there any sexual positions that can reduce the likely hood of becoming pregnant if you have unprotected sex?
No. Pregnancy is possible whatever position you use. See the section on emergency contraception.

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If a man puts his penis inside you but doesn't come inside you is it possible to become pregnant?
Yes. Sperm can leak from the penis before a man is anywhere near coming and it would be impossible for him to reallise this.

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Is it possible to get pregnant without having sex?

Yes. If sperm come into contact with a woman's genital area (near her vagina) either by a man ejaculating (coming near her vagina) or touching her vagina with sperm on fingers or anything else e.g. sex toys, it is possible for sperm to find it's way to the inside of her vagina and swim up to the fallopian tubes.

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My period is late, am I pregnant?
Pregnancy is not the only reason why a period can be late. Your period can be delayed due to stress, quite often stress about worrying about being pregnant! However if you have put yourself at risk or are just worried it is important that you find out for sure as soon as possible. Pregnancy tests can be carried out 2 weeks after an episode of unprotected sex or when your period is late (See Pregnancy Testing section).

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Will the pill make me fat?
The pill may increase your appetite slightly and unless you watch what you eat you may put on a little weight. Studies suggest that any weight gain should be minimal.

Teenage women naturally gain weight as they reach their 20s. This is the body's method of storing fat for future pregnancy. As this is often the time that women start the pill they may associate that natural weight gain with the pill.

Weight gain may also occur when women change from being at school where they are active to having a job or studying which may make them less active.
Remember, any weight gain due to the pill will never be as much as the weight gained due to pregnancy.

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What are the symptoms of a sexually transmitted infection?
Symptoms can be -
  • Increase or unusual vaginal discharge or discharge from the penis.
  • Smelly discharge.
  • Itchy genitals.
  • Ulcers or sores around the genitals.
  • Genital warts.
  • Pain or discomfort while passing urine.
  • Bleeding after sex or in between periods.
  • Pain on sexual intercourse.
  • Lower abdominal pain.
  • No symptoms.
Many sexually transmitted infections have very mild or no symptoms. Some infections such as gonorrhoea or chlamydia may continue to cause damage even with no symptoms. They can lead to infertility or long term pelvic pain.

Chlamydia has become very common recently with around 1 in 10 young, sexually active people infected. Most people have no symptoms of chlamydia. However, once found it is very easy to treat with antibiotics.

The most important thing is finding out you have it. If you have had unprotected sex with a partner then it is possible you may have picked up an infection.

If you have any symptoms it is important that you attend a genitourinary clinic (G.U.M, Special / VD clinic) as soon as possible for advice and treatment. If you have no symptoms it is still important to be screened. HIV infection may show no symptoms for many years.

Ask staff at Caledonia Youth for details of your nearest clinic. Although you may feel very embarrassed about attending a clinic, staff there are very experienced and will not be shocked by what you tell them.

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